I'm in a rut with my family, help!!!!?

You should be happy there are people out there who care enough about you to want to pay for your school. If you don't take this opportunity now, you will regret it. There are people out there who can't even dream about going to college because no one ever put it in their head that it was a possibility. It looks like they really want to help you, you don't have to listen to everything, but understand it and receive it as love.